A few weeks ago, there was a thread asking if it was appropriate for a married man to spend time alone with someone of the opposite sex.
I Married man looking for someone to spend time with surprised at the number of married loking here who almost universally agreed that was generally a bad idea. Maybe it's because I'm not married yet, but I found that confusing. I'm all for protecting the marriage and establishing healthy boundaries with others of both sexes, but I'm not sure why being alone with others is a problem for so many people. Can you guys explain this to me some more? I'm not looking to start a debate, just wanting further insight.
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Whether it's a good idea or not, in many cases, traveling with male colleagues is required by your work. I took LOTS of overnight business trips with male colleagues--it was just expected by the firm I worked for, and no lookkng thought twice MMarried it, so it wasn't an occasion for gossip. I took road trips with male colleagues and shared meals with them. What I wouldn't do was to go into their hotel room--or they to mine. Not that it ever came up.Latin Girls Adult Cook Islands
Also, if you were to find yourself being attracted to another man sexual attraction to fkr doesn't go away after marriageI would suggest trying to make sure that you were never alone with him in a room with a door that closed.
In marriage, there is the "videotape rule. Pretty much that you can't have a friend of the opposite sex because sexual attraction always gets in the way.
My fiance has female friends he has known for years -- he's grown up with one in particular and never have they been an "item. I don't mind when he sees her from time to time. Likewise I travel into the city alone to meet up with guy friends not me and multiple guy friends, me and just one guy friend and he never bats an eye about it. He intends to "cut" the majority of female friends out of his Married man looking for someone to spend time with in the coming months, though--the kind you meet in college that you catch up with just once a year--and we're really looking into establishing couple friendships.
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I mean we're not talking taking an opposite-sex friend out for a nice dinner but meeting up at Starbucks. Someone mentioned something similar in my thread about gay stuff saying he would always have to be with at least two women in a public place and I thought it was weird, but maybe it's because I'm gay? Men and women cannot be friends.
If proximity breeds intimacy and men and women are incapable of being friends only, then people would not spend time alone together with the opposite sex lest they become friends and eventually have to have sex. This is weird to me, too.Naperville IL Cheating Wives
Why they would need to spend a lot of time alone together, I don't know, but then again, I'm not a huge fan of assuming people are going to get it on when they aren't supposed to.
I know that because I have had several close friends who were men--and they were Adult seeking sex tonight Alief just work mates and not gay. For example, in my first year of grad school I hung out continuously with a male friend of mine. We were very close friends and there was never even a hint of sex between us.
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In my case, I was not only not sexually attracted to him, but he was the boyfriend of my closest friend, who was attending a different college miles away. He was like a brother to me--to even think of something physical happening between us would have felt like incest. I also Married man looking for someone to spend time with out with his roommates and there was never any hint that they were Gallery group man swinger. interested in me.
I don't know if guys really do think about sex all the time or not. All I know is that there have been several guys with whom have been close friends--and many others who ho been less close friends or work mates--with no problems of sex or sexual tension.
Then again, I don't look like Meg Ryan. I'm not saying I would go out to lunch with a male co-worker. But, if a male coworker wanted to have a Married man looking for someone to spend time with meeting, I would have lunch with him in the company cafeteria. Also, if I was on an overnight business trip with a male coworker, I would have dinner with him in a public restaurant.
Again, at the company where I worked, all these things were common custom, and it was accepted that these were itme dates.
I never had any problem with any of my ot coworkers in these Riva del Garda sex personals. Then again, I also never flirted with them. If I had been in a different workplace with different Married man looking for someone to spend time with and expectations, I might have acted differently.
Is this the thread in question: If so, the OP mentions, and fleshes out, a possible attraction that one of the parties may have had in relation to the other and that at least one of the spouses involved was uncomfortable with the gathering. I think both of those factors would have played a part in the discussion.
Hm yeah but that sounds like business is the primary reason Marrjed you're together. Which is acceptable in my eyes. You need to be a member in order to leave a comment. Sign up for a new account in our community. Already have an account?
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Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 1 of 3. Posted February 26, Share this post Link to post Share on other sites. There's a moral hazard to it. It's simply a fact to acknowledge, not obsess over.
I missed that thread, so I don't know the circumstances in question. I very much think it depends on the circumstance. Let me save us all a lot of time: When Harry Met Sally.
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Posted February 27, Posted February 27, edited. I apologize for my ignorance. What did the movie "When Harry Met Sally" say? Edited February 27, by franciscanheart.
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